Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a socially or ritually recognized union between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between the spouses married to each other, between the spouses and any resulting biological or adopted children of theirs, and between spouses and their affinity (in-laws and another family through marriage). The definition of marriage varies according to different cultures, but it is principally an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually sexual, are acknowledged or sanctioned. In some cultures, marriage is recommended or considered to be compulsory before pursuing any sexual activity. When defined broadly, marriage is considered a cultural universal.
Here is the description of what really happens in arranged marriage over love marriage.
Beti, Zara chalkar dikhao!
In India, arranged marriages still remain the majorly preferred way for Indians to enter into matrimony. In case of an arranged marriage, parents and other relatives decide on a life partner that they deem suitable for their child. They keep in mind various factors, different for boys and girls while searching for a suitable match to attach their names with. It’s a tradition Indians find hard to part with. Even in the 21st Century, around 85 percent Indians prefer to marry the boy or girl chosen by their families, rather than choosing their life partners themselves.
The basic concept of love marriage lies in the fact that the boy or girl chooses his or her life partner. There is no elderly supervision involved, although in India the approval of elders is sought before the boy and girl in love can tie the knot. The restrictions of caste, social status, physical appearance and even religion do not apply when a person falls in love and hence such clauses are not part of the marriage discussions. In case of couples going for love marriage, they have ample chances to explore their compatibilities and discuss their life philosophies in depth.
Mere Paas Maa hai!
In typically arranged marriages, the parents decide every facet of the process and the prospective bride and groom just show up at the prearranged date of marriage. The girl will have to obey her mother-in-law and the boy will have to listen to what his extended family says, and never say a ‘No’. In love marriage, it presents an opportunity to build one’s life together with their partner. Love is the basis for the partners to come together in the relationship and with love comes mutual respect and commitment. Freedom is the most important factor here.
Jaane kya hoga Rama re…
On the day of marriage, nervousness occurs when the groom is set to tie the knot and all geared up to start a new life with his partner, which could not be understood. This is the case what happens in arranged marriages. In case of love marriage the boy and the girl, they generally are acquainted with each other for a considerable period of time, often studying or working together and if not moving in the same circle. They can’t wait for all the rituals to get over. They eagerly want to marry their love partner.
Baad me na kehna kuch bhi, pehle hi de dun ‘WARNING’!
In an arranged marriage, it’s all about adjustments and compromise. You feel that much love and care as seen in case of love marriages. Love marriage is all about love and endless love. There is no question of adjustments,
Someone has rightly said ’Marriage is made in heaven’. Marriage should be done with a perfect partner, let it be arranged marriage or love marriage!